Recipe for Success

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In the last blog post I mentioned turning to a routine or activities that work for you in order to get you motivated and goal-focused again. Anytime I get off course and find myself living a less than ideal lifestyle, allowing some of my bad habits to creep back into my life, I start over by planning out a routine such as listed below. I SCHEDULE it into my day, and I write it down in my calendar. It looks something like this: Coffee and sit quietly- yes, I admit that I am addicted to … [Read more...]

How to Get Motivated to Control Your Bad Habits – When you don’t know where to start…


So it’s the middle of January and I’m wondering just how strong your commitment is now toward accomplishing your New Year goals. Do you find yourself just sort of treading water and not really knowing which way to swim in order to get where you want to go? What IS your goal or desire anyway? Did you intend to lose weight or cut back on drinking, or spending, or any of a multitude of bad habits – but you just can’t get motivated or decide WHERE to start? Start by thinking back on the things … [Read more...]

No Bull Sheet Excuses – Stick to your plan!

New Year 2015 Plan

Okay, it’s January 5 and you've made it through the holidays. Hopefully you have thought about your objectives for 2015, and you’re ready to start implementing your new plans and “resolutions.” You have planned out your goals (weight loss, professional, financial, relationship, etc.), you've planned HOW you’ll accomplish those goals including how you’ll deal with current and potential obstacles. And in your plan, you should have considered how you’ll handle your INNER obstacles as well. You … [Read more...]

How and Why to Go a Few Days Without Drinking Alcohol

Check out this video to get motivated and start to experience a few days alcohol-free (AF). You'll feel SO MUCH BETTER!! … [Read more...]

Is the Person You are Living with Making You Fat?

OK – so maybe that sounds a little exaggerated or even like you’re giving up your power to another person – but you really have to become aware of why you eat too much or drink too much for comfort. Way too often we are persuaded to act differently than our ideal because of those around us. And yes, while we’re all aware of peer pressure or going with the flow – there’s another element that we may not be mindful of – conflict avoidance or trying to seek some type of escape or coping mechanism … [Read more...]

Refocus the Anxious Energy – Get off the Hamster Wheel & Be Productive

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If you are keeping a journal or paying attention to your drinking habits, you probably have noticed how often you drink because something is bothering you and you can’t get it off your mind. You keep worrying about one thing or another - and in order to get relief you turn to a bottle of wine or bag of cookies. But instead of trying to drown that anxious nervous energy, use that energy to get something productive accomplished. For instance, If you get into an argument or disagreement … [Read more...]

And the Survey Says…

Thank you to all of you MODER8 customers that responded to my survey. I promised I would report the results, so here's what you said: 94% of you said that you were drinking less 26% said that you were doing great and that your drinking is cut in half or better However, only 13% of you felt like your drinking is where you want it to be. So I looked through the answers of the most successful users and this is what they said they were doing: The most successful MODER8 users had a … [Read more...]

The Two Most Important Skills in Moderate Drinking – Here’s How to Master Them

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If you really think about it, the two most important skills in moderate drinking are: Being able to stay Alcohol-Free (AF) on planned AF days. Being able to STOP at the amount you plan to stop at when you do drink – derailing the binge. If you’re new to moderate drinking, you may be saying “no kidding! If I could do that I wouldn’t have a problem!” But the truth is just like anything that seems nearly impossible, it just takes work, dedication, and a desire to achieve your goal “no … [Read more...]

Alcohol Abuse – Genetic Brain Disease or Bad Habit?

This topic may very well be one of the most passionately argued controversies in the addiction community – right up there with politics and religion in the rest of the world. I can tell you if it were simply black and white, the problem would have been “fixed” a long time ago. Alcoholism is really a combination of brain physiology and bad habits involving not only genetic personality traits and vulnerabilities, but learned behavior and “etched” neural pathways in the brain. According to … [Read more...]

Do You Replace One Bad Habit with Another?

Don’t get me wrong, my primary objective with MODER8 and this site is to help you reduce and control the amount you drink…however it works best for you. I encourage people to identify substitutes for drinking that make them feel good, peaceful, or happy. For some people, they can substitute a reasonable amount of food or other behavior as a treat or reward, but way too often, that substitute becomes another excessive bad habit resulting in the same negative feelings, shame and health problems as … [Read more...]

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